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Polka Dots and Daydreams

August 21, 2008
By Mary Forsell, Contributing Editor                      

It started with a watercolor "study" that my 7-year-old daughter, Elizabeth, did in art class. I don't think it was an assignment—just something she whipped up while daydreaming about her room. Basically, it was her vision of what her room should look like. For years she'd been sulking because it was painted yellow. She went through the expected, "I want a pink and purple room" phase, which I ignored because I knew it would pass. But when she came home with this study—orange walls, multicolored polka dots, and white and red horizontal lines slicing through the center, how could I ignore it?

                     
                                 The painting that started it all.

My husband and I agreed. We gave her a choice: She could either go with a basic roller paint job as a base, or do something more mottled, aged, imperfect, and glazelike. She went with the latter. We went to the store and got the materials. I cleared the room. There was no excuse for further procrastination. With brushes in hand, we started. I almost wimped out. I didn't want this bright orange thing to happen. But I followed Elizabeth's lead, glopping on the acrylic, going thick, adding texture. You had to just let go and let it happen.

                     
                        The artist at work, expressing her vision.

Here’s how we did it: On a paint tray, add water to the deep end and place a big glob of yellow and red acrylic adjacent to each other on the high end, about 2 tablespoons each. With a wet brush take a little bit of red and orange and use the tray like a palette to mix it. Apply to wall in broad strokes. Keep wetting your brush and mixing the paint. Let dry. Add polka dots freehand or with a stencil. Then mask out stripes and paint.

                   
                                           A colorful corner.

Now she wants to add images of monkeys to the ceiling. Stay tuned...

*Update*

                    
Elizabeth and her sister, Anna, survey the polka-dotted terrain from the loft bed.

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What an energizing palette. How fun to be an interior designer at such a young age.
Posted By: http://theholidayqueen.blogspot.com/


I just read this with my 8 year old granddaughter. She thinks this is a wild idea and would be fun. She especially likes the monkey idea for the ceiling. We will stayed tuned!
Posted By: Grandma D and Emma


And we are just left hanging. I would have liked to see it without the painters tape still on the walls. Good for you to let her do something like this to her room! My dd has pink walls, a mural on one wall and lavendar bubbles and a wavy water type lower section for the rest of the walls. You just have to let that imagination out once in awhile.
Posted By: Tanya


WOW! You certainly went bold. I hope she doesn't tire too soon. But, then I really don't consider paint an easy fix. No matter what the experts say. I felt pretty daring when we painted a wall in my daughter's room a rather bright blue and stuck a big pasteboard rainbow on it.
Posted By: carol


Let her do it ! Being young myself, I was always painting, decorating the rooms in my home with my parents encouragement and I have developed my own technique because I had the freedom to. (I now draw 3-D, along with painting and crafting, sewing,etc.). What a great age to start developing !! My daughter Rachelle Lynn Everson passed away at the age 18 (car accident 11/8/1994, she had a dream and I had premonitions of it happening before it did) and everyone that knew her said she loved life, because I gave her the freedom to, and would do anything to have her here with me now. Your daughter is only home for a short while before she goes out on her own, and you will wish these years back. PS go to: www.warwickadvertiser.com (under Business Notebook, Paul Hipsman Traveling BBQ).
Posted By: Rachelleinheaven@yahoo.com.sg


I'm glad you let your daughter have the room she wanted!! Her creativity was encouraged in a positive way and she will long after this ceases to be her taste how her Mom helped her. Some things we can't let children do, but this is one that gives them much more than just a colorful room. When she gets older and perhaps changes her mind a gallon or two of paint will erase the polk- a-dot room, but the smiles will be in her heart until she is very, very old. GOOD FOR YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND!!!!!
Posted By: Billie Lindley


I rememeber my daughter's many color phases, and we did it all, even black. Though she went from black to light pink for the next phase, many coats of paint...but for a couple of gallons of paint for each phase, it let her be herself in her room. So mom, let her express...that is so important! So let her at it!! And fun with the monkeys!
Posted By: Brenda Wampler


I was allowed to paint my room when I was younger but there were restrictions> I grew up in artistic family my mother is a fine artist(portraits and such). I found clever ways to get around the restrictions by using fabric and afterwards there wasno priming to do. My children wanted to paint walls black and thank goodness this to passed. I am all for giving a child freedom, but this seems extreme.My husband gave my grandsons an air brush and let them paint in the garage.The boys were only 4 and 5 at the time. We framed two of their best pictures and gave them as presents to their parents. I guess it is all what you are comfortable with.I am an artist and have my own business .
Posted By: PamelaL201@aol.com


Oh how fun.. what a sweet idea, and what awesome parents you are to let your daughter get creative!! Thanks for sharing.
Posted By: April


This brought back memories of a drawing I did of what I wanted my room to be--some 40 years ago--and presented to my parents. Daisy wallpaper (daisies were in)...turn my closet into a desk area. It got nixed quickly. Sniff Sniff... I applaud you!
Posted By: Peggy Guthrie


I am so glad that you let her paint her room the way she wanted it. She will remember this forever. Not only did you send encourage her creativity but you made her feel respected and let her know that her opinion matters. Good for you in letting her be the person she wants to be.
Posted By: Kimberly


I love how it turned out! I just might have to let my daughter paint her room! :)
Posted By: Lani Robertson


How wonderful & inspiring! This little girl will go far in many creative ways! My grand- daughter was only 3 when she painted butterflies & dragonflies on her walls, with a little help from me. She's proud of her artwork & loves her room! Too many children live in boring spaces!


Good for you for letting your daughter fix up the room she wanted. I put my foot down on the camoflage look my son wanted along with the black wall. Don't know if that upset him or not. I should ask!! Of course, that was in the 90's when he was in high school. Monkeys on the ceiling! Now that, to me, would be frightening! I will check back to see the final outcome!
Posted By: Judy B.


Oh, I think it's such a wonderful idea! Kids should have a space to call their own and definitely be a part of the process. What a great mom you are!
Posted By: Jillian Haupt


I'm sure Randy Pausch (The Last Lecture) is smiling down on you from heaven...he attributes his parents letting him paint is own room, to his life long pursuit, and achievement of, his dreams...
Posted By: M Whitten


Love it! And love the monkey idea!!
Posted By: Bluemoon


Wow......I think I want a room like that...... I have never been a monkey person.......but I am doing a wallhanging from a picture that my grandson send and I am adding MONKEY's to it.....I purchased some of the fantastic sock monkey fabric.. and although his original crayon pic was a neighborhood.....it will have trees-polka dots (the coordinating fabrics have dots!) and when finished the rod that holds it will have antique wooden monkeys handcarved in China hanging from each end.....I think on one of the walls she should have a tree so the monkeys have somewhere to climb up from...!!!!!!and maybe you want to check out the fabric..... and as a soon to be 61 year old great-grandma.....I think she is setting herself up for a JOURNEY of a creative life and IMAGINATION that all children should be free to have.......
Posted By: Mary Eva Hart-Mumper


Great idea! Way back in the 50's my parents let me pick out the colors for my bedroom...I chose pink and gray everywhere and I loved it. I can still see it in my mind, and it's a comfortable feeling to remember it. Your little girl won't forget when she's 65 either. Good for you!
Posted By: Linda


Let her paint as she wants it. Then take pictures of it and document it. Later when she wants other colores, do the same. It will be easier to change, when she has her photos to look back on. She'll begin to see some progress in her artistic room. Who knows where her artistic bent will lead!
Posted By: Dolores Petersen


What a wonderful, creative, and enterprising young lady you have, and I think you must be a very good and understanding Mother. Congratulations to you both! So what if she does tire of it quickly? It's only paint, and the next procedure will have more thought and planning, so will probably be even better. Way to go, Elizabeth!!
Posted By: feohara@netzero.com (81 years old)


I love it! I didn't give up my decorating control until my second DD was 12 and wanted a huge bulletin board. I gave her an entire wall and her Dad put one up for her. She filled it with wonderful things for years. Long after she left home, I'd spend time looking at it and reminescing about her and all of the items of her teen years.
Posted By: Marci


love your book- its the only one i allow myself to get in the mail. for the room- it s beautiful! so artfully done for a 7 yr old little girl! & keep on doing it, you're so good at it! teri f.


I love this. I wish I'd been encouraged to do this when I was young but we lived in military housing and most of the houses weren't ours. I'm getting ready to retire and am newly married at the age of 60. We are painting our home - my husband's father's house - with wonderful bright colors and we love the results. Our kitchen will be red and black - my husband's favorite colors - he's the cook. My bedroom in lime green and my work room will be a lucious shade of purple. Our bathroom is old time green with black accents and we painted the walls black. It has been so much fun to do and looks fabulous. I can't wait to move in and enjoy it everyday.
Posted By: Bonnie Artvenus47


The world needs more parents like you!!!! Your daughter has a wonderfull imagination. I take my hat off to you for having incredible patience. Some day she will have children of her own, and she will take all of life's lessons that you have taught her, and you can sit back as the Grandmother, and say I remember when........ Posted by: Ann Cannizzaro


My daughter was 15 or 16 she painted her room different shades of purple squares on all 4 walls. All bedding coordinated with it. Stars on the ceiling that glowed. Paper hanging lights. She had a lot of fun.
Posted By: Becky


I love your interesting articles and have to have a wonderful staff with great talent and lots of artistic ability. I loved reading about your staff. thank you !!!
Posted By: Pat Warren, Sun Lakes CC, CA


That is so awesome that your daughter is allowed to show her creative side so young! Everyone is right, she will remember this (and more to come) when she is older and what a great memory to have!!


We were only allowed pastels in our little room, but when something dinged the wall, a whole rainbow of colors was shown, as the house dated to the 1800s. Everything from dark greens to red, it was fun to see all the colors even if my parents didn't have the same ideas of people years ago. I wonder what color the little room is now? House still standing and lived in. But I live so far away...
Posted By: Karen


I love what your daughter painted and what a great thing that you let her pursue her creativity in her room. As a young girl from age 8 or 9 on, my mom use to let me rearrange the furniture in our house and it always looked better and more refreshed. I would rake the shag carpet as a final touch and it always ended up looking great. To this day, I rearrange, decorate, design, and find myself drawn to many creative adventures. Thank you to my mom for letting it all unfold....good for you and your husband too! What a wonderful gift you have given your daughter, and through the years you will see how this gift will unfold in her life.
Posted By: Kathy Boyett, La Crescenta, CA


I am working on getting photos online! Sorry I lost my camera with photos of the final product! Mary


So sorry no photos of final product! I agree the painter's tape doesn't do it justice! I lost my camera with them and am trying to find it.
Posted By: Mary Forsell


Congratulations Elizabeth.....you are a very young interior designer....next thing you know you will be illustrating childrens books...whatever your passion let it be your true self....& I love your name...it's my daughter's also passed down after her g- ma..she just designed two tuscan style vases in ceramics class for my birthday this passed april....inspiring...and we just took her off to college last saturday....enjoy your special talent Elizabeth!!!
Posted By: brunswick mom of two teenagers!


That's fantastic that parents empower their kids with resources and the latitude to experiment. -Lisa
Posted By: http://www.ecstewart.com


When our son was younger and the Phoenix Suns team was in the playoff finals, our whole block was Suns crazy. He painted his room Phoenix Suns orange and decaled the windows to the street. He has posters, cards, etc. all over the room. He loved being in there. We always allowed our children their space growing up. It was their individual room to be done as they saw fit. Kilz covers up everything when you are ready to start over. Of course, their space meant they cleaned it, they vacuumed it, they did their laundry. It didn't come free of charge. Today they are both artistic adults and learned to be very responsible in the process.
Posted By: Arizona Mom With Awesome Kids


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